Why You Need Vulva Mapping In Your Life
Do you wonder if sex can feel better than it does now?
Do you feel self-conscious and not sure how to touch yourself?
Would you like to get out of your head & heal shame and pain?
Want to experience the untapped arousals of your body?
Want luscious body acceptance and feel empowered, validated, & normalized?
A self-paced, pre-recorded, virtual course with guided hands-on interactive mappings to your Vulva-Vaginal arousal anatomy to support your exploration, knowledge, and orgasmic expansion based on the foundations of Somatic Sexological Bodywork™.
Your Pleasure Muse (a.k.a. The Vulva Whisperer)
Helping women gain agency to reclaim and explore their body in its full divine potential by providing an Operation Manual for your creative life force & all the pleasure you deserve.
But… What is Vulva Mapping?
Vulva-Vaginal Mapping is an unfolding process that guides you step by step to touch, feel and connect with each of your anatomical landmarks. This somatic process expands orgasmic potential by creating new neurological pathways to pleasure, healing trapped pain and numbness, building connection and acceptance with our bodies, increasing knowledge of your anatomy, and strengthening sensations through somatic attunement.
This unique genital mapping experience is a Sexological Bodywork approach to touching your pelvic floor point by point, bringing stillness, attention & intention to notice what is felt physically and emotionally. As you focus on sensation, Dolly guides you to feel for potential pleasure, tenderness, pain, numbness, or neutrality. If you were doing an in-person session, Dolly would be administering the touch. The brilliance of the online approach is that YOU touch your own body right from the get-go. This gives you AGENCY, which means you’re develop a command over your own felt experience as you deepen your ability to listen to sensation, emotions and stories the fascia is holding.
This somatic approach connects sensations and feelings we hold in our body to help unwind what no longer serves us. This cannot be done just talking about the issues. It has to be a felt experience, which is how we integrate this powerful transformation and new knowledge into our being.
From the privacy of your home, the Touch-Feel-Connect D.I.Y. Edition guides you on an interactive hands-on embodied mapping, meditative, and somatic process that helps you:
Understand the arousal anatomy of your pelvic floor
Teaches you new erogenous zones (there’s even more to ‘the clit’ than you realize)
Heal past hurts & unwind shame
Awaken new sensations & expand pleasure
Uncover & release your body’s held stories that limit & influence your orgasmic potential
All art by VulvaLaLaLa
Just when were theygoing to tell us about our anatomy?
Where was this information during biology? When we got our first period? When we started having sex? When we graduated from highschool? College? When we got married? Got divorced? Had a baby? Saw our doctor for pain we felt down there? When we were hiding out because we didn’t want anyone to know the shame we were feeling? When we entered peri-menopause? Menopause?
I realized that there's no they.
It's only us.
It's up to you and me.
It's up to you and me.
I love my OBGYN, but besides getting some fluid samples once a year, or helping with a pregnancy or STI, there’s not a whole lot of anatomy instruction, much less pleasure lessons, happening!
So that’s where I come in …
The D.I.Y. Edition of Touch-Feel-Connect is perfect for those who:
Are ready for an in-depth, methodical deep dive that takes commitment
Want to start and stop their experience on their own time and schedule
Feel a bit more private or shy about their journey
Want the feel of private high value coaching that’s more economical
Aren’t quite sure what to expect but are curious to give it a try
Want to experience their body from this embodied Sexological Bodywork Approach vs. just hearing a lecture or seeing graphs
Want to have new tools accessible to them 24/7
Are excited to get started on their journey immediately
Creating Connection to your Body by shifting Shame and Self-Consciousness to Curiosity and Exploration
How is Touch-Feel-Connect different from anything else out there?
Touch-Feel-Connect D.I.Y. Online edition is a guided step-by-step hands-on roadmap to the Vulva and Vaginal arousal anatomy built upon the somatic foundations of Sexological Bodywork™ .
Sexological Bodywork ™ is an embodied methodology that takes you out of your mind and into your body by activating the embodiment principles. It’s a process of reclamation to heal your body’s needs so you can be at choice for how you feel, while also creating more space and neurological pathways for increased pleasure potential.
This cannot be done just talking about the issues. It has to be a felt experience.
Touch-Feel-Connect is your User’s Manual for this felt experience. It teaches you how to access and listen to the Arousal Anatomy of your pelvic floor by uncovering and unwinding habits, trapped emotions, shame, numbness, or sensations that no longer serve you. The process will validate, normalize, and empower you to move beyond limitations, provide you with language to ask for what you wants, and the ability to connect more innately with your erotic potential.
This is the power of Somatic healing and expansion.
Ask yourself…
Do you have thoughts or feelings that keep you from exploring your body?
Do you wonder if you’re feeling all the pleasure you can?
Do you struggle asking for what you want, or even knowing what you want?
Are you tired of feeling embarrassed or ashamed?
Have you been tolerating painful or uninspired sex?
Do you want to stop relying on toys or porn to orgasm and get back to the basics of simple touch?
Do you wonder if you have trapped pain or numbness and would like to learn how to heal this?
Would you like to discover what your body craves and how to satiate your emotional & physiological needs?
Do you want to increase your anatomy knowledge and sensation?
Would you like to better relate to your body and your sexual partner(s)?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, the Touch-Feel-Connect DIY Vulva-Mapping Course may be the answer to your prayers.
This self-paced course walks you through the PleasureMuse Sexological Bodywork ™ approach to genital mapping in a calm and caring manner to support your nervous system, help you feel safe in your exploration, and establish a new relationship with the arousal anatomy of your pelvic floor so that healing, pleasure, and acceptance can flourish.
Understanding how to access your pleasure is key to your evolution and self-actualization as a sexual being free of shame!
Skills you’ll Learn, Develop and Master:
Agency
Somatic Dialoguing
Personal Consent & Trust
Establish Common Language
Connection
Unwind Shame
Somatic Awareness
Arousal Anatomy Knowledge
Creating New Orgasmic Pathways
Intimacy Enhancement
Finding Your Voice
Self-Help Compliance
Embodiment
Attunement
Remediation
Somatic Learning
Integration
Erotic Expression
Highlighting Key Skills
AGENCY
The first Skill of my Touch Feel Connect Vulva Mapping is the skill of AGENCY. That’s right … you taking the bull by the horns and saying that you want this knowledge about your body. That what’s in-between your legs is not a deep black hole for others to poke and prod; that you want to get in the driver’s seat to truly understand your anatomy! That’s AGENCY! In other words, taking ownership and responsibility for your experience.
AROUSAL ANATOMY
Did you know that women have 5 erectile beds? Or the difference between your Vulva and your Vagina? Do you know if you are more sensitive in your Perineal Sponge, G-Crest, or your A-Spot? Have you ever felt your Cervix? Or why it’s important to know where your Urethra is located? Don’t worry … I didn’t know any of this before I became a Sexological Bodyworker. Learning to Identify your body's arousal anatomy of your pelvic floor helps you get in tune with your feminine wisdom and empowers your authority, pleasure and healing possibilities.
ATTUNEMENT
Our pelvic floor is our creative-life-force center that is home to our womb, our vulvas and our vaginas. There is so much to learn from these organs and tissues if we only take the time to pause and listen to them. Learning how to tune into your body’s needs, create a safe and nurturing space for yourself, and use tools of embodiment so you can better connect and attune are life long skills that are the foundation of this explorative discovery and connecting experience.
When You Enroll
In addition to Dolly’s expert Somatic Sexological Bodywork™ experience and nurturing guidance to safely explore, heal & awaken your sacred life force ...
Touch-Feel-Connect D.I.Y. online video and audio guidance includes over 4 hours of instruction:
Embodiment Practice and Techniques
Your Personal “Nest Set-Up”
2 Parasympathetic Nervous System Guided & Embodied Meditations
3 Pelvic Floor Guided Mappings including
Vulva Mapping Felt Experience
“Name it & Claim it” Anatomical Treasure Hunt
Vaginal Mapping
Healing and Remediation Techniques
Installation, Integration, & Restoration
Bonus:
🍒 Journaling, Homework Handouts, Visual Graphics
🍒 Home Video of Dolly's Hubby Mapping HER. Demos the level of intimacy and connection that can be shared when your partner learns these skills!
(Note: the camera is focused on him and you only see Dolly’s leg, but the intimacy that’s captured is memorable)
Curriculum at A Glance
Choose a 5 day journey or my recommended 5 week journey.
Day/Week 1
Watch Intro Videos
Nest Set Up Instructions
Review and Purchase Supplies
Body Anchor Meditation
Vulva Hug Mediation
Day/Week 2
Daily Meditations
Mapping #1: Vulva Felt Experience
Journal
Vulva Massage
Day/Week 3
Daily Meditations
Anatomical Mirror Work
Mapping #2: Anatomical Treasure Hunt
Journal
Vulva Massage
Day/Week 4
Daily Meditations
Mapping #3: Vaginal Mapping
Remediation
Vaginal & Vulva massage
Journal
Day/Week 5
Integration
Daily Meditations
Journal
Remediation
Note
Choose a 5 Day or a 5 Week experience. The TFC videos and lessons will be permanently available to you as I recommend mapping 2-3x a year.
Setting aside personal time to explore and establish a new relationship with your genitals helps nurture a more confident, sensual you!
I’m Dolly Josette
Your Pleasure Muse, a.k.a. the Vulva Whisperer
Meet Your Vulva Warrior Tour Guide
Do you relate to this? You are craving comfort in your body and are tired of feeling sexually frustrated, embarrassed, broken, or that sex is a chore or not all that it’s cracked up to be.
And because you’ve mastered your professional field, it feels extra frustrating that you feel limited in this area of life that’s supposed to come natural.
Why do I know this? Because I’ve been in your shoes! I was a successful TV producer who finally got the courage to get a divorce from my first husband largely because I wasn’t sexually satisfied. And when I did find satisfaction in my second marriage, multiple miscarriages and health issues led me to feel broken and disenchanted with sex.
In a quest to know my body and my hubby’s body better, we worked with a Sexological Bodyworker. The process was so eye-opening, I even decided to became one! I didn’t know there was so much we didn’t know about our bodies and sex!
Now I routinely do Vulva & Vaginal Mappings as part of my health preservation because my body and needs continually change. This became especially clear when I was having intense pain with penetrative sex due to peri-menopausual issues. Not only did I do my own remediation, but I also did a series of sessions with my Mentor in Sexological Bodywork, Ellen Heed. And, as part of my healing, I taught my hubby how to V-Map me, which is when I coined the term, "Touch, Feel , Connect" because those partnered sessions were among the most intimate, connecting experiences we’ve had. (my Private Coaching supports Mapping for Couples)
"Touch, Feel , Connect" also applies to our own interactions with our own bodies. There is nothing more sacred and honoring than having a trustworthy and loving relationship with our own genitals. This is a portal to our power, our creativity, our divinity.
Dolly is a respected member of her professional community. She’s a former President of the Association of Sexological Bodyworkers and has hosted and produced two trainings for the Certification of Sexological Bodyworkers in conjunction with the Institute of Somatic Sexology and Joseph Kramer, the founder of the profession.
Show Me The Proof!
Vulvalicious Clip from Lisa Welsh interview
Vulva Mapping on Quibi’s Sexology with Shan Boodram
Building a bridge of trust between you and your Yoni, the portal to your power, creativity, and divinity.
Here’s a VALUE summary of what’s included in this unique,
ground-breaking “Do it Yourself” Mapping program:
“Set Up Your Nest” along with Sexological Bodywork Tools & Practices $200
Two Parasympathetic Nervous System Guided & Embodied Meditations $200
80-Minute Video Guided Vulva Mapping Felt Experience $500
60-Minute Audio “Name It & Claim It” Anatomical Treasure Hunt Mapping Experience $400
45-Minute Video Guided Vaginal Mapping Experience $400
Healing & Remediation Techniques $200
Monthly Live Bonus Group Integration Zoom Event with Dolly $500
Total value is $2,400!
(see discount below)
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4 hours of Do-It-Yourself guided instruction:
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$597
Vulva? Vagina? Bueller? Let’s laugh and learn.
I was honored to be included as an expert in Cosmopolitan’s Vaginal Mapping article; however, when I tried to follow their D.I.Y. instructions … uh, well, maybe they kinda missed the point? Check out my humorous perspective on Cosmo’s instructions. Hopefully, you’ll have a chuckle and then you can tell me ... Vulva? Vagina?
Be among the brilliant, brave, and pioneering! Take up space, claim your power, and gain AGENCY over your amazing and capable body.
