Relationship Reboot Retreat
Your Intimate Sexual Connection Just Arrived!
A Nashville Luxury Retreat for Women & Couples
Come and Get It!
Get ready for love, tears, pleasure … and authentic tingly intimacy!
At your curated private Relationship Retreat in the heart of downtown Nashville, you’ll revitalize your sensual and sexual relationship, whether it’s your connection to your partner or to yourself.
All of us are born sexual beings, but never taught how to unleash, harness or celebrate it, much less, how to show up as confident & shame-free lovers.
Besides learning the art of somatic sensual touch, embodiment, and lifelong pleasure skills, we’ll also address emotional or sexual blocks, trauma or habits that may be contributing to feelings of numbness, not being met, or even shame.
It’s time to deepen intimacy and better relate to and understand your bodies.
4 weekend dates left for 2024
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2 day for Sexy Staycation for Nashville locals
3-5 days Vacay for visiting couples or a solo woman
Includes several Zooms sessions before in-person retreat and at least one follow up afterwards.
Here’s What One Couple Recently Shared:
“Dolly’s retreat experience was truly transformative for myself and my partner. I had worked with Dolly previously via zoom and knew her knowledge of embodied sexuality was impressive, but working with her in person allowed for literal hands-on learning of embodiment skills with each other. My partner and I have been in a healing space for the last year, and while Dolly’s awareness of our unique situation allowed her to customize our retreat activities, it was her sharp intuition during our time together that allowed for deeper attunement to our needs as a couple and make adjustments in the moment as needed.
What transpired was a remarkably beautiful and deeply healing experience as we participated in various exercises that allowed my partner and me to connect and tune in to each other in an amazingly present and focused manner. I had a sense of time standing still on several occasions throughout the weekend as I was completely immersed in both the activity and the connection to my partner.
Not only is Dolly a consummate professional in every way, she held a safe, completely non-judgmental container for our work and was able to articulate the deeper psychology of eroticism and attachment in a way that afforded myriad “aha” and “yes!” moments. I felt seen, heard, and understood by Dolly and fully free to express myself emotionally and somatically due to the safe space she masterfully created, and my partner felt the same.
The schedule was designed to maximize both our time with Dolly and our intimate time together to rest, integrate, nourish ourselves and explore the city on our own time. We left Nashville feeling renewed and expansive, excited to continue our erotic journey and feeling more deeply in love and connected. My partner and I will continue to work with Dolly via zoom and hope to return for another retreat in the future, since eroticism and intimacy is ever-changing and evolving like any other aspect of being human.”
C&D, both previously divorced and dating for 3 years ENGAGED after my retreat
Create sensual pathways to pleasure, through embodied somatic learning.
— Dolly Josette, The PleasureMuse
If you’re ready to …
Reclaim sexual pleasure
Heal intimacy and emotional blocks
Ignite your relationship with pleasure
Rekindle your spark & authentic intimacy
Shift from performative sex to erotic embodiment
Increase your sexual confidence
Reverse low libido
Learn how to give and receive touch that heals, connects, and arouses
Then I’m ready for YOU.
Relationship Reboot is a curated retreat offered in the heart of downtown Nashville, tailored to your sexual needs as a couple or a woman.
As part of the retreat, your accommodations in a fully-furnished luxury high-rise apartment, minutes away from the Gulch, South Broadway – as well as the river, are included.
“We feel like we’re on vacation!” a couple recently told me. That’s the goal!
In a space of deep relaxation and treat yourself + you’ve earned this vibe, we’re going to heal you from the inside out – literally.
Meet Dolly Josette
Since rooting down in Nashville recently with my husband Jason of 14 years, our 2 rescue dogs and 4 dwarf pigmy goats, I’ve been feeling more than just a change in scenery. I’m feeling more than ever how hungry couples are to have deeper connections.
They want to get that spark back.
They want to feel like they’re desirable…and desiring.
More than anything, they want to feel alive in a way that feels legitimately exciting.
To learn more about me, my relationship journey, and my credentials as a Somatic Practitioner and Sexological Bodyworker, click HERE
Skills you’ll Learn, Develop and Master:
Agency
Somatic Dialoguing
Personal Consent & Trust
Establish Common Language
Connection
Unwind Shame
Somatic Awareness
Arousal Anatomy Knowledge
Creating New Orgasmic Pathways
Intimacy Enhancement
Finding Your Voice
Self-Help Compliance
Embodiment
Attunement
Remediation
Somatic Learning
Integration
Erotic Expression
Typical Schedule
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Arrival Day
Evening the day before.
Or the morning of Day 1
Meet Dolly for a tour of the accomodations and get settled in with your gift bag, personalized food items, the gym or the pool.
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Day 1
10-2 Session 1
2-3:30 Lunch on your own
3:30- 7 Session 2
Session content is based on previous zoom sessions where we’ve established your goals and have begun developing your somatic embodiment skills.
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Day 2
10-2 Session 3
2-3:30 Lunch on your ow
3:30- 7 Session 4
While we’ll have a plan of Somatic Bodywork sessions to support your goals, we may have to detour based on what shows up for you on Day 1. We let the body lead us for what you’re ready for.
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Day 3
9- 12 Final session / Wrap up
Spend the day integrating or site seeing.
Or pack up all the transformation and head home.
You’ll get email resources from Dolly plus Zoom follow up post retreat.
Session Examples
Basic
Nervous System Regulation, Attachment Styles, Consent & Boundaries, Eye Gazing, Embodiment Principals, Somatic Awareness building toward Attunement, Somatic Dialoguing, Wheel of Consent Intro, Knowing your Yes/No, Nourishing Yin & Yang, Somatic Intimacy Building Exercises.
Intermediate
Libido style: Spontaneous or Responsive Sexual Desire, Movement, Sound, Asking for What You Want, Touch styles: Giving, Receiving, Taking & Allowing, Active Receiving, Masculine / Feminine Polarity, Core Erotic Themes, Sexual Styles and Blueprints, Orgasm and Climax Styles, Female and Male Genital Anatomy, Flirtation Style
Advanced
Childhood Regression Healing, Tumescence Sensual Embodiment, Vulva & Vaginal Mapping, Penis Mapping, Anal Mapping, Prostate Exploration, Genital De-Armoring, Tao Erotic Experience, Body Electric, Kink Introduction, Role Play.
FAQs
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You stay in luxury high rise accommodations in downtown Nashville where we will also do the session work. Dolly is on-site upon your arrival and during session work only.
It’s a Queen size bed in a one-bedroom apartment with full kitchen.
Living room futon couch pulls out into a sleeper sofa.
Towels and sheets are washed in non-scented hypoallergenic soap.
Towels, snack items, drinks, eye masks and ear plugs are provided.
There are black out shades for windows.
Massage table, props and other resources are available for your use during the retreat.
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In the heart of downtown Nashville, Dolly will provide restaurant recommendations.
Walk score is high and nightlight is fun …(but not being too indulgent so it doesn’t interfere with our somatic work.)
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Zooms, Video or Podcast links, Goodie Bag, Special Snacks specific to your diet, acess to gym, pool, free coffee /tea station ; Airport pick up upon arrival only or 1 car garaged parking.
ZOOMS:
For a couple, 4 zoom sessions are included: 1 as a couple, 1 per individual, 1 post retreat as a couple.
For a solo woman, 3 zooms: 2 pre retreat and 1 post retreat.
For a group of friends, it’s case by case.
Additional zoom series may be recommended due to your goals.
RESOURCES:
Dolly loves to share resources via email specific to your goals.
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As a Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker, I abide by the Code of Ethics of the ACSB. The purpose of this work is educational, healing, and explorative in nature as a co-creation. Consent and boundaries are critical. Dolly is never unclothed and erotic energy is directed between partners.
Dolly holds safe space so transformation and expression can surface.
She leaves after session time to give you privacy and time for rest, integration, and personal exploration.
What Clients Are Saying
“I came to Dolly with an undisclosed sexual trauma history. She guided me through unwinding shame, settling my nervous system and quieting my mind so I could begin to listen to what my body needed.
Her foundational work with me (via zoom) led my husband and I to her Nashville couples' retreat. Over 3 days, Dolly held space for us and, just as importantly, she held time.
We had time to develop intimacy, promote healing, and feel embodiment. She intuitively shared her knowledge, energy and playful spirit. We left with a deeper connection as a couple and felt such a release and healing for myself.
Thank you Dolly for walking along with me on this healing and awakening journey.
You have changed my life!”
— Aniston, 52, married 34 years
I am so thankful for Dolly’s expertise in helping my wife and I work through a childhood trauma my wife experienced. Throughout the journey, I’ve learned how to be a better lover, husband, and friend. As someone who was brought up in a family that did not talk about sex, Dolly has taught me so much about the female and male anatomy and how my body works as a sexual being. Her approach is fun and exciting! After several sessions over Zoom, which seamed like we were almost there face to face, we spent several days with Dolly in person at her Nashville office. Wow! My wife and I had the most powerful pleasure enhancing experiences as a couple and as individuals! We dealt with trauma, shame, and even my ED. We learned many new and exciting ways to boost our sexual experiences and most importantly I believe, we now have the knowledge and new skills we’ll use to take our relationship to new heights of intimacy we never before imagined were possible.
I highly recommend working with Dolly to improve your sex life and deeply enhance pleasures you can experience with a partner and yourself.
— Bob, 59, married 34 years
“When we booked the weekend with Dolly, we had to lean in and trust that there wasn't a "master plan" or strict schedule to follow for the weekend. Instead, Dolly provided a loose framework of what we could expect, but then depending on what came up, she was able to pivot or shift to adapt to what was needed. With Dolly, we received one-on-one, customized attention completely focused on our needs as a couple and as individuals. I think of Dolly like a sexual midwife; she helps birth something new, and is with you along the way, through the pains of labor and the ecstasy of discovery.
Even though she is the expert with vast professional knowledge and experience, she is not the focus-- you, the couple, are the focus. During our sessions, she continually redirected us back to each other, helping us create new patterns and shift perceptions. During one point in the weekend she led me in a (unplanned) somatic healing exercise from childhood wounds, helping release what was blocking my heart and my ability to give and receive love in the relationship. Dolly is intuitive, compassionate, talented, knowledgable, grounded, attuned, and authentic. I highly recommend investing in a weekend with her for a "Relationship Reboot"!
— Jen, 48, married 24 years
“I was curious about what Dolly had to offer to my wife and I as we continue to grow together sexually. Truth be told, as a “Type A” person I was looking for an agenda of things we would cover to determine if sessions would be worth the spend. We eventually decided to move forward with a full weekend w Dolly and simply lean into it - and I’m so glad I did!
Dolly is a master at her trade and connecting with people’s needs. She is a free spirit with tremendous knowledge and care for clients. We learned about my sexual type and my wife’s sexual type and how to best merge our vastly different preferences. She accommodated and advocated for each of our different perspectives, very well. Dolly is a true healing, professional with a fantastic and very unique gift. and her accommodations in Nashville were absolutely stellar.”
— Jeff, 47, married 24 years
“I consider myself a very sexual person, so I was extremely curious about Relationship Reboot and my in-person work with Dolly. Leading up to the experience, she asked me what my goals were, and I told her I wanted to be more embodied during sex with my partners. I'm in my head a lot during sex, and don't always drop fully down into sensation. I'm always anticipating the next move, often being performative.
I'm thrilled to say that Dolly totally helped me draw my consciousness more deeply into my body, through a series of somatic practices. I truly wasn't expecting how powerful they would be.
There was one moment when I was lying on her table, and simply murmured, "wow." I still feel and remember it, days later. It felt like a shift in brain waves, as though I entered a deeper, calmer state. If I could put it into words, it felt like my 'doing' mind, the one constantly scanning the situation from the outside, finally powered down, and in its absence...I became all body. Which processes things much more slowly than my mind does...and in that way...sensation is much more delicious.
I'm so grateful to have experienced this, & plan to continue embodiment work at home. It's already improving my solo and partnered sex, making me more radically present in each. I will also say that Dolly made me feel so safe, communicated extremely clearly, and conducts everything with clear, affirmative consent. Thank you SO much, Dolly.”
— Tolly, 41, married but attended as a solo woman
“Practicing this work is one thing, teaching it is another. What seems to be required is a teacher who embodies, models, and encourages participants to explore while being able to create and hold a safe container for participants to jump in, even if there is fear or trepidation.
Dolly naturally creates an accepting, inviting, safe, playful and light hearted space while being able to hold anything that comes to the surface with love, respect and kindness.
This is one of Dolly's gifts that consistently came through throughout our weekend retreat, allowing us to fall further and deeper into each other.”
— R.E., 56, married couple
Learn Somatic Intimacy Skills at your Relationship Reboot Retreat
Ready to take one step closer to your private Relationship Reboot Retreat in Nashville? By filling out this form, you're letting her know your goals and potential dates. Dolly will then email you to schedule a telephone intake to answer questions, review package deals, and discuss next steps.
You owe it to yourself, your relationship, and your partner to take some well deserved time to focus and cultivate love & intimacy. You’ll learn how to tune into your emotional and physical needs, ask for what you want, hold space, heal intimacy blocks, develop full body sensual touch skills as a giver and a receiver, deepened embodiment, and lifelong access to pleasure as you've never known it.
We'll cover sexual styles, attachment issues, childhood wounds, nervous system regulation, anatomy, communication skills, attunement, etc.
So much value all in a gorgeous hotel-like luxury apartment that you stay in as part of the Retreat, with Dolly staying just for session work.
Couples
Most couples ready for an immersive retreat like this are typically empty nesters who want to improve their next chapter and rekindle their spark and physical connection to match their deep love. Others are at a crossroads wanting to solve sexual incompatibility or emotional blocks. Most are middle aged and leave feeling 20 years younger! One wife said, “I never knew sex could be this much fun! I feel like we’re teenagers again.”
Solo Woman
Whether you are partnered or single, many women want to resolve their own personal sensual and sexual limitations on thier own. To develop their own sense of agency and confidence. Many are looking for love again after many years of being single; or are tired of tolerating things that just doing feel right! So they want clarity, confidence and to step into their sensual and sexual power.
Friends
Sometimes, it feels better to learn new things with your bestie. And if that’s how you dip your toe into uncharted territory, then I can curate solo and combined sessions that suit your individual needs. Limited to 3 friends per visit, but two is best.
Meet Stephanie
I worked with Stephanie and her husband for two sessions at a retreat in Belize. So much positive, playful, sexual and healing connection surfaced that they’re continuing their work with me at their own private Nashville Relationship Reboot Retreat combined with pre and post zooms.
Where is your relationship headed? Where do you want it to go?
Isn’t it time to discover your sensuality, heal and replace harmful patterns, and show up in life as a sexy, confident new being?
— Dolly Josette, The PleasureMuse